Sometimes all breakthrough comes when seeing things from a completely new perspective.
Try something new, something that you would never think of doing.
Babysit for a friend. Join a club. Stand up at open mike night. Go on a date with someone who is out of your league.
Do something different.
For whatever you choose, don’t set expectations.
Your friend’s kid might not like you. The club might be boring. You probably stink at stand-up comedy. There’s a reason she’s out of your league.
If you keep doing something different, eventually you will find the right different thing to do.
Maybe its a funny story club for kids who don’t normally like babysitters. Run by yourself and someone you met on a date a while ago.
Your story only changes, if you are willing to change your story.